As a Congolese student graduating from high school in DRC, I was excited to join a university and explore a more open, diverse environment. I had heard that university is a universe where everyone minds their own business, a place to start building your life, meet people with different perspectives, and enjoy freedom, but with the responsibility to use it wisely. No one will chase you to remind you of your duties; your success depends entirely on your choices.
After completing high school at Cornerstone Leadership Academy in DRC, I enrolled at Mount Kigali University in Rwanda, drawn by its reputation for safety, organization, cleanliness, and high-quality education, particularly in the Faculty of Mass Media and Communication.
My first day during orientation was a mix of fear and astonishment. I arrived early, worried I might miss something, and I was immediately impressed by the university’s organization: course registration, online examinations, and structured guidance all showed a high level of efficiency. Madam Catherine shared advice that stayed with me: “University is a place to build connections and discover new people, but remember why you are here. You’ll have freedom, but your choices determine your success. Earn what you deserve; don’t cheat for marks.”
During my first class, I experienced the excitement of being in the auditorium with other new students, sharing our motivations and receiving our first assignments. No lecturer chased students who didn’t complete work; the responsibility was ours. Initially, I struggled with language, as many students spoke Kinyarwanda. Over time, I adapted, understanding that language skills are crucial for communication and navigating life in a new country.
I was inspired by the university’s diversity, meeting students from South Sudan, Eritrea, Afghanistan, and the DRC. Each of us faced challenges, particularly in interacting locally and understanding cultural norms. This taught me patience, adaptability, and the importance of seeking advice when needed. Living far from my family, I learned responsibility, independence, and how to follow instructions in a foreign environment.
If I were to advise someone joining a university abroad, I would say: come with an open mind, adapt to change, learn from those around you, follow instructions carefully, focus on your purpose, and avoid comparing yourself to others. University won’t completely change who you are, but it will shape you into a new, often better, version of yourself.
My experience at Mount Kigali University has opened my eyes to a world of diversity, teaching me lessons that go beyond the classroom and helping me grow as a person.
